Finding Redemption: Embracing the Absence of a Father on Father's Day

Father's Day, a day dedicated to celebrating the love and influence of fathers, can be a bittersweet occasion for those whose relationships with their fathers were marked by difficulty or abuse. Yet, amidst the longing for a loving father and the sad reality that it will never be, there is room for healing and the discovery of an unexpected Father figure. In this blog, I reflect on the paradox of needing a father's love while simultaneously being grateful that my own is no longer present. I delve into the transformative power of finding solace in a loving God, who stepped into my life to save me from the inevitable disaster it could have been.

The Absence of a Loving Father: "So on this Father's Day, I remember what's true, That the absence of a loving father is not my due."

Fatherhood is supposed to be a sanctuary of love, guidance, and unwavering support. However, some of us find ourselves in the unfortunate circumstance of having fathers who are distant, difficult, or abusive. The yearning for a loving father, a figure to turn to for solace and protection, persists despite the pain and disappointment. It is a complex paradox of needing something we never truly had.

Honor in Strength, Resilience, and Grace: "I'll honor my own strength, resilience, and grace, And forge a path filled with love, in a broken father's place."

Despite the absence of a loving father, we can find solace and purpose in our own strength, resilience, and grace. We possess the ability to rise above our circumstances, to build a life that reflects our true worth and potential. In the face of adversity, we learn to honor ourselves and recognize our inherent value. We embrace the power to forge a path filled with love and healing, one that defies the brokenness we experienced.

The Unexpected Father:

As we navigate the complexities of our emotions on Father's Day, it is crucial to explore the concept of an unexpected Father who steps into our lives. In my journey, I discovered a loving God who became the Father I longed for. This divine presence offered solace, redemption, and love unlike any I had experienced before. It was through this newfound relationship that I found the healing and guidance I had sought from an earthly father.

Finding Redemption:

The paradox lies in acknowledging the need for a father's love while simultaneously feeling a sense of relief that our own fathers are no longer present. It is a multifaceted emotional journey that requires both introspection and acceptance. We must recognize that the absence of a loving father is not a reflection of our worth, but rather a circumstance that we can rise above.

Conclusion:

On this Father's Day, let us remember that the absence of a loving father does not define us. We can honor ourselves, our strength, resilience, and grace. Moreover, we can find solace in an unexpected Father figure, a loving God who steps into our lives to bring healing and redemption. Through this transformative relationship, we can forge a path filled with love, compassion, and the promise of a brighter future.

Father today I honour You for lovingly leading me and for graciously saving me. You are a good good Father full of mercy, compassion and so much grace. You are faithful and kind and an ever-present help in times of trouble. Your healing hand reached deep into my being and made me whole again. No one will ever know or understand the depths and magnitude of what You have done for me and why I call YOU Father. Your presence brings peace, comfort, and security. There is no place I would rather be than in Your presence. Happy FATHER'S day!!!