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Finding Redemption: Embracing the Absence of a Father on Father's Day

Father's Day, a day dedicated to celebrating the love and influence of fathers, can be a bittersweet occasion for those whose relationships with their fathers were marked by difficulty or abuse. Yet, amidst the longing for a loving father and the sad reality that it will never be, there is room for healing and the discovery of an unexpected Father figure. In this blog, I reflect on the paradox of needing a father's love while simultaneously being grateful that my own is no longer present. I delve into the transformative power of finding solace in a loving God, who stepped into my life to save me from the inevitable disaster it could have been. The Absence of a Loving Father: "So on this Father's Day, I remember what's true, That the absence of a loving father is not my due." Fatherhood is supposed to be a sanctuary of love, guidance, and unwavering support. However, some of us find ourselves in the unfortunate circumstance of having fathers who are distant, di...

You Are Doing Too Much!!!

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  We live in a world where busyness is often celebrated, and rest is seen as laziness. As a result, many of us are constantly on the go, trying to do too much, and juggling multiple responsibilities. However, as Christians, we are called to prioritize rest and self-care. Jesus himself recognized the importance of rest, taking time away from his ministry to pray and recharge. The dangers of burnout are not limited to our physical and mental health but can also affect our spiritual well-being. Burnout can lead to a lack of motivation, decreased productivity, and a sense of detachment from our faith. So how do we know if we are heading for burnout? Here are some common signs to look out for: Feeling exhausted all the time: Burnout can cause physical and emotional fatigue, making it difficult to find energy for daily tasks. Increased cynicism and negativity: Burnout can also lead to a sense of negativity, cynicism, and a lack of joy. Decreased productivity: Burnout...
The Work of Covenant: Why "Once Saved, Always Saved" Falls Short Introduction The belief of "once saved, always saved" is a doctrine held by certain Christian denominations, suggesting that once a person accepts Jesus Christ as their savior, their salvation is eternally secure, regardless of their subsequent actions. However, using the analogy of marriage, we can shed light on the importance of intentional commitment and ongoing effort within a covenant relationship. By examining the responsibilities and work required in a marriage covenant, we can gain insights into why the "once saved, always saved" belief may not be doctrinally sound. The Commitment of Marriage Marriage is a sacred covenant, a vow made between two individuals to love, honor, and remain faithful to each other for a lifetime. It involves a genuine commitment to build a life together, to prioritize the well-being of one's spouse, and to continually invest in the relationship. S...

Midcourse Adjustments & Corrections

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  Midlife is often viewed as a time of crisis, but it can also be seen as an adjustment, a time of growth, and a time for reflection. As Christians, we believe that every stage of life is an opportunity for spiritual growth and service to God. So how can we approach midlife with a positive mindset and a Christian perspective? Embrace God's plan for your life In midlife, it's easy to become disillusioned with our plans and dreams, but we can take comfort in knowing that God has a plan for our lives. Trusting in God's plan can bring peace and a sense of purpose, even when things don't go as we expect. Seek God's wisdom As we navigate the challenges and changes of midlife, it's important to seek God's wisdom and guidance. This can be done through prayer, reading the Bible, and seeking advice from wise Christian mentors. Prioritize spiritual growth Midlife is a great time to prioritize our spiritual growth. This can include attending church regularly, participat...

Glorious butterfly (( 31 May 1974 --- 22 May 2010 ))

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    **The glorious Butterfly Brightly coloured Shimmering Stardust On its elusive Wings Recall Childhood days loving this Creature Every girl's Heart Covets this Wonder Only to Capture Its Flighty Beauty In Glass jars... Now Trapped My own Heart Now Saddened By my own Desire Touching its Glitter Rubbing off On Guilty hands Owning its Prey Dying Slowly The Once Free Now a Slave To Selfish Whims ** Tanya (Potts) Arendse (2009) Words cannot express how much I miss my sister. She was such a huge part of my life, such a huge part of me. Three years ago today she went to be with the Lord. I take heart and know that I will be united with her one day, for eternity, but until that day comes I will always miss her sweet presence in my life… Tanya I still grieve the loss of your presence in our lives. I miss our chats on the couch, your chocolate muffins, your good advice, your sarcastic jokes and glorious intellect. I miss your beautiful face and smile. I m...

Vuyo Mbuli 1967 - 2003 "sharp sharp"

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  Some people touch our lives only briefly While others leave a lasting impression and are never forgotten One of our most beloved television and radio personalities passed away, at the age of 46, on the morning of Sunday 19 May 2013, due to a heart attack. As South Africa mourns, I fondly remember how every morning getting ready for work used to be such a pleasure due in part to his breakfast news show co hosted with Leanne Manas. With his infectious laugh and awesome fun personality he made the breakfast show enjoyable. The lovely chemistry of fun and respect between him and Leanne was always a pleasure to watch. We will miss the “sharp sharp eita da” at the end of each show as well as the funny way he used to say “goeie genade”… Rest in peace Vuyo Mbuli you will be forever loved and remembered and sorely missed.  

A Sad Grieving Kind of Mood

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I have been in a strange sort of mood, a sad grieving kind of mood… Every moment of every day the obvious void screams loud and louder still… Time will heal; they say… it will get better with every day… True lie THAT is, it does not, it does not fade away… It remains strong and stronger still, overwhelms and overpowers, this grief I feel… Maybe I will get better in living with it, maybe… Maybe I will be stronger in holding it, maybe… Today real and now, I grieve and grieve and grieve… Yes God fills my life with love and strength yet from this holed heart it seeps and I am empty once again… I am in a strange mood, a grieving kind of mood…   Vanessa Fortune 7/5/2013   She is a friend of mind. She gather me, man. The pieces I am, she gather them and give them back to me in all the right order. It's good, you know, when you got a woman who is a friend of your mind. Toni Morrison Read more at http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/...